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Janis Abrahms Spring, Ph.D., ABPP

Don't Ask Me To Forgive You! A Radical Approach to Healing Interpersonal Wounds

6.0 CE Hours Available

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Objectives

Participants will be able to describe:
  • Assumptions about what it means to forgive
  • Why current models of forgiveness offend so many
  • Why narcissists refuse to forgive and others forgive too easily
  • A radical, new alternative which allows hurt parties to become physically and emotionally healthy?without forgiving an unapologetic offender
  • Concrete guidelines for helping offenders (such as unfaithful partners) earn forgiveness
  • Guidelines for helping hurt parties foster forgiveness

Topics Covered

Assumptions About What It Means to Forgive
  • Is forgiveness good for us?
  • Is forgiveness a private gift or an interpersonal exchange?
Cheap Forgiveness & Refusing to Forgive
  • Why narcissists refuse to forgive
  • Why others forgive too easily
  • Why refusing to forgive and forgiving too cheaply are unhealthy
Acceptance - A Radical Alternative
    What hurt parties can do to heal themselves, including:
  • Release their obsessive preoccupation with the injury and need for revenge
  • Frame the offender?s mistreatment in terms of the offender?s personal damage and life stresses
Acceptance - A Radical Alternative, continued
  • Correct misperceptions about the offender and the offense
  • Challenge their official story about their innocence
  • Forge a relationship with offenders that serves their best interests
Genuine Forgiveness
What offenders must do to earn forgiveness, including:
  • Challenge the assumptions that block their ability to make meaningful repairs
  • Bear witness to the pain they caused
  • Make an effective apology
  • Seek to understand their behavior so they never repeat the transgression
  • Work to earn back trust
An Experiential Exercise
What hurt parties can do to foster forgiveness

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J&K Seminars, LLC is approved to sponsor continuing education by :
  • J&K Seminars, LLC is an AOTA (The American Occupational Therapy Association, Inc.) Approved Provider of Continuing Education (Provider # 5180). The assignment of AOTA CEUs does not imply endorsement of specific course content, products, or clinical procedures by AOTA.
  • J&K Seminars, LLC is approved by the American Psychological Association (APA) to sponsor continuing education for psychologists. J&K Seminars, LLC maintains responsibility for our programs and contents.
  • J&K Seminars, LLC, provider #1080, is approved as a provider for social work continuing education by the Association of Social Work Boards (ASWB) www.aswb.org , (through the Approved Continuing Education ACE) program. J&K Seminars, LLC maintains responsibility for the program. ASWB Approval Period: 01/27/2015 – 01/27/2018. Social workers should contact their regulatory board to determine course approval.
  • J&K Seminars, LLC is a NBCC-Approved Continuing Education Provider (ACEPTM) and may offer NBCC-approved clock hours for events that meet NBCC requirements. The ACEP solely is responsible for all aspects of the program.
  • J&K Seminars, LLC is an NAADAC Approved Education Provider #757
  • State of California - Board of Behavioral Sciences - Courses meet the qualifications for continuing education credit for LMFTs, LPCCs, LEPs and/or LCSWs as required by the California Board of Behavioral Sciences.
  • Florida Board of Clinical Social Work, Marriage and Family Therapy and Mental Health Counseling Provider Number BAP #758
  • J&K Seminars, LLC is a registered social worker continuing education sponsor for Illinois social workers(Lic # 159.000833)
  • Maryland State Board of Social Work Examiners
  • J&K Seminars, LLC SW CPE #0174 has received conditional approval from the New York State Education Department’s State Board for Social Work to offer continuing education to licensed social workers, effective 6/17/2015. The Department may subsequently notify J&K Seminars, LLC that a particular course or courses is/are not acceptable. This conditional approval is in effect until the Department makes a final determination to approve or deny J&K Seminars, LLC application.
  • Pennsylvania Certification Board (PCB) for D&A professionals (ICRC/AODA) # 271
  • All programs have been approved by the Pennsylvania Board of Social Workers, Professional Counselors, and Marriage and Family Therapists
  • J&K Seminars, LLC is an approved provider of continuing education by the PA State Nurses Association, an accredited approver by the American Nurses Credentialing Center's Commission on Accreditation
  • J&K Seminars, LLC is an approved provider of continuing education by the Texas Board of Examiners of Marriage & Family Therapists Provider Number # 483
  • J&K Seminars, LLC is an approved provider of continuing education by the Texas State Board of Examiners of Professional Counselors #1835